Everyone wants to know how to message on Tinder. That’s the main reason that people are shy about using probably the best dating app...
Everyone wants to know how to message on Tinder. That’s the main reason that people are shy about using probably the best dating app there is. Contacting a total stranger for the first time (especially one who might sleep with you) is a high-pressure situation. And we all know the pain of matching with somebody hot, and then screwing up right away. You get all excited about your potential dream girl’s butt, and then you get rejected. But upping your Tinder game isn’t actually that hard, and we’re here to help.
The first thing you need is a selection of solid openers. You need to come out right away with something that’s going to distinguish you from the pack of other guys. Do not, I repeat, do not send somebody a message saying ‘sup’ or ‘hey sexy’, or anything like that. Fortunately, it’s not so hard to stand out, because most guys absolutely suck at Tinder. Every pretty girl has an avalanche of stupid messages. Be just a little different, a little unusual, and you’ll have a way better chance of connecting with someone cool.
To help you out, we’ve put together a gallery of examples. I don’t recommend copying them word-for-word, because it’s possible that your potential Tinderella has seen them before. And it would be terrible if you tried to come off as original and ended up revealing yourself as a plagiarist. But take these as your Tinder opener inspirations. Take them and put your own twist on them or try something entirely new.
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